We all know the value of a vacation. We work hard all year, and then plan, arrange and organize those special weeks we set aside for travel, distraction and relaxation. My problem with vacations is that I put so much effort into maximizing them, that I often come home more tired than before I left. Now, don’t get me wrong...I come home relaxed and rejuvenated, I just also come home wanting my routines back, ready for my own bed, and wanting some early nights to catch up on my sleep.
Take my special birthday trip to Las Vegas last month, for example:
Did we have fun? Yes.
Did the right people join us? Yes.
Did we pack in everything that we wanted to do and more? Yes.
Was I tired for a week afterwards? Yes.
Was it worth it? Most definitely.
Could I do it again next month? No way.
We have to plan these special weekends, with the right people and the right things to do. Sometimes it’s with our whole family, and sometimes just the adults. Sometimes it’s with friends, and sometimes not. Sometimes it’s for a weekend, and sometimes it’s longer. The point is to recognize the need for a recharge, and while it’s easy to do that when our “holidays” are mapped out for us a year in advance, what about those times when we are in between holidays, in between vacations, and we still need a recharge?
I plan little mini mind breaks for myself. Sometimes, they involve a hobby that I find therapeutic: fly fishing, tying flies for fly fishing, gardening, reading or running. Sometimes, they are simple little “staycations” at the beach with my family, or a quiet afternoon by the pool. And, sometimes, they are more formalized around some sort of professional growth, personal growth or in-service: a conference, a workshop, a training session or other learning opportunity. This weekend, I have signed up for a workshop as a little battery recharge to keep me going until Spring Break in a couple of weeks. My local fly shop has brought in a celebrity, of sort, to run a fly tying class. While I am a very advanced fly tyer in my own right, I am really looking forward to learning some new tricks of the trade from a respected master. Perhaps next week, I will let you know how it all goes?
The thing is that we can get lost spending time trying to fix everyone else, when what we really need to remember that by ignoring ourselves, and breaking down, we are no good to anyone. Even if that recharge comes from squirreling away for 30 minutes to yourself, it might be the most important thing that you do that day. Good luck finding the things that you need to recharge yourself!
The thing is that we can get lost spending time trying to fix everyone else, when what we really need to remember that by ignoring ourselves, and breaking down, we are no good to anyone. Even if that recharge comes from squirreling away for 30 minutes to yourself, it might be the most important thing that you do that day. Good luck finding the things that you need to recharge yourself!